My daughter was going to a private school with a small population. She was going for one year, and one boy liked her. I told her I didn't want her to have boyfriends yet. So, I found out later on that a girl approached my daughter online who had a crush on her. My daughter then decided that she was gay, because the boy went on to another girl and she was angry and felt no guys in the school thought she was pretty. This girl lived in Georgia, and was invited to my home. I did not know she was gay. I found out, and I took my daughters phone. I found out she was going on gay promoting websites. I even found out she may have kissed this girl. I know she liked boys in the past. I was overwhelmed and I sent her to to her fathers house. She has since repented and has asked to come back home. I miss her and I want to believe it, but her facebook page still has her and the girl on it (profile picture). How do I address all of this? I want to act like it never happened but I don't know if that is the wise thing to do. She will be 17 in December, and I want to approach this in a Godly, loving fashion, but I still want her to know the seriousness of these actions. Any thoughts or advice? It would be nice. Thanks!
Sharon,
New Jersey
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