Finding A New Church

I was wondering if someone could give me some guidelines about how to find a church. Right now, I attend my parents' church, but I don't believe that it's meeting my needs. I know that church is not a "social club," but it is important that a single woman not feel out of place in a church that consists relatively of married couples who have families. I also feel that my spiritual needs are not being met there. The church is small, and because it's mainly made up of older folk, it seems that they're really set in their ways. They don't seem to want to "move forward" in their faith. What I mean is, they don't seem on 'fire' for God about winning people to the Lord, and they don't seem to carry a VISION of DOING SOMETHING to get into their own building. The ones who are my age are married, except for one, and then it's hard for me to confide in someone who's younger than me, and who is a very young Christian. I know that the apostle Paul said that it was good to be "unmarried," because you can then have "undistracted devotion to the Lord." Being around married people, who are caught up in the everyday "worldly" stuff- buying clothes, looking nice, etc. and caring about the stuff that married people think about, which makes it hard to have conversation with them , and around someone younger than me who is caught up in the same things - I don't have anything in common with them. I'm not being proud, I'm being honest. How does one go looking for a church that has a healthy variety of people who are from ALL walks of life: single, married, divorced, widowed, young children, teens, etc., esp. of the same kind of faith background as I? What would you suggest? Thank you.



Jessica,
Washington

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